Should I Stay or Should I Go? – Gabriela (Ecuador)

Should I stay or should I go? What to do after graduation? Is Estonia a good place to stay? What is the future going to be like? I know, I know many questions are bouncing around your head as graduation is getting closer. Well, Let me tell you, you’re not the only one (We are all in this together). Welcome to this blog. I won’t lie that the following lines were not easy to write, but here is an honest opinion. You must read this if you’re finishing your studies and do not know the next step in your life.

After spending almost a year in Estonia, I realized that many students at the end of their program have this moment of uncertainty. Some people have already found a job, fallen in love, gone to a party, or managed to survive the end of their studies, and why not all of them! (very difficult, tough)

To answer this question, there are many factors to consider. I think that for each person, it is different. However, from my perspective, these differences make Estonia an attractive place to work and live.

#1 Digital Society

Estonia has made significant progress in technology, which is reflected in how technology is integrated into the country’s culture and daily life. The government has proactively promoted digital transformation and used technology to improve public services and streamline bureaucracy. This has resulted in various convenient and efficient digital services, including: e-government, e-tax, e-voting, and e-residency.

Estonia’s forward-thinking technological approach has also become a hub for innovation and start-ups. With a supportive business environment, access to funding, a pool of talented, and skilled workers the country has become a hot spot for entrepreneurs looking to establish their start-ups. As a result, Estonia has been dubbed the “Start-up Nation of Europe,” and many international companies have set up offices in the country to tap into its technology-driven ecosystem.

At the cafeteria. Image credit: Gabriela Villafuerte Guerrero

#2 Relationships

Estonians are known for their reserved and introverted nature, which can sometimes make them appear distant and aloof to outsiders. However, it’s important to note that this is simply part of their cultural identity and not a reflection of their personality or character. Once you get to know them, Estonians are friendly, warm, and welcoming people who are always happy to help. In my personal experience, making friends in Estonia is simple once you take the first step.

 

 

 

 

International Student Ambassadors 2023. Image credit: Andrea Rotenberg

#3 Work-life balance 

Estonia is a country that values work-life balance and understands that it is essential for individuals to have time for leisure and personal pursuits. Therefore, the government has embraced a work culture that promotes flexibility and allows individuals to manage their time effectively.

In Estonia, various employers allow employees to have the freedom to set their schedules and work when it suits them best. Additionally, employers in Estonia recognize the importance of employee well-being and understand that a happy and satisfied workforce is more productive and engaged. 

Another aspect of work-life balance that Estonia excels in is its short commute times. Most cities in Estonia are compact and well-connected, so commuting to work is quick and easy. This allows people to spend less time traveling to and from work and more time doing the things they love. It also reduces the stress and fatigue that can come with long commutes.

#4 Security

Estonia’s safety and security are important draws for visitors seeking a peaceful and stable environment. In my personal experience, you can walk alone and feel safe on the streets. Furthermore, because Estonia has a low corruption and crime rate. Residents are able to enjoy a high quality of life without worrying about their personal safety or the integrity of their government institutions. As a result, it is an excellent environment to live, work, and raise a family.

Tartu. Image credit: Gabriela Villafuerte Guerrero

Now, let’s go to the downside because I promise to be honest. 

Estonian Temporary Residence Permit. Image credit: Gabriela Villafuerte Guerrero

#1 Migration

If you’re an EU citizen, congrats, this does not apply to you. However, If you are a non-EU citizen like me, you must be aware that your permanence in the country depends on a VISA or Resident Permit. Anyway, you need to establish a valid reason for staying in the country because, trust me, you don’t want to run into immigration issues.

#2 Weather 

Oh boy! If you don’t like cold weather, consider other options. The weather can be challenging for those who are not used to it. Winter can be freezing, down to -20˚C. In the winter season, you have to prepare yourself physically and psychologically. The days have few hours of daylight, and generally, the environment feels sad and unproductive. People prefer not to go out much at that time. However, the good side is that there is room for other indoor activities such as saunas (so popular in Estonia), board game nights, binge-watching series and movies, bringing out your inner chef, and trying new recipes. Also, this is compensated for in summer when the days are longer, and there are many outdoor activities.

#3 Homesickness

After all, you will be exposed to a different culture every day. New food, which you might not necessarily like. New places where you might get lost. But this doesn’t have to be bad. This is an excellent opportunity to grow and know yourself better. I would suggest you keep your mind busy and do various activities. Find groups of things you like and create connections in those groups. Make a video call with your family and friends and share all those new experiences. Indeed, the people who love you will be happy with all your achievements. All this is part of growing up, the bird has to leave the nest and its comfort zone. Remember that asking for help is not bad, and letting off steam is totally valid.

#4 Language Barrier

While many Estonians speak English and other languages, the official language is Estonian. This can make it difficult for foreigners to integrate into the community and navigate daily life. For example, grocery shopping can be challenging because most product descriptions are in Estonian. If you are considering living in Estonia, consider enrolling in an Estonian course. But in the meantime, the translator is your best friend (Tip: Google Lens made my life easier)

In short, there’s no right or wrong answer to the question, should I stay or should I go? I’m sorry to disappoint you if you got here looking for an answer; I promised to be honest from the beginning. The reality is that it doesn’t matter where you are, it’s about the people you’re with, and most importantly, it’s about your determination to be happy and fulfilled wherever you are. After all, you are the one who knows what you need the most, and you are the only one who knows yourself thoroughly. 

I assure you that everything will be OK wherever you go or stay. I am aware that everyone despises the cliche “everything will be fine,” but even if it may not feel that way right now, trust me when I say that it is because I have experienced it. In other words, you must trust that the only way is to respect the process because the only way is through.

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